How to Win Hearts ♥

SMILE

It is the first arrow and the fastest of them all. It is like the salt for food. It is also regarded as a kind of worship and alms-giving as mentioned in Hadith "Smiling at your brother's face is as charity (Sadaqa)". Sahaabah reported about the Prophet (Peace be up on him) saying that they had never seen someone smile at the other's face more then as the Prophet Muhammad (Peace be up on him) used to do.

The Prophet Muhammad (Peace be up on him) said: "Do not ever waste your good deeds, even by meeting your brother with a frowning face." Your smile for your brother is sadaqah.[bukhari]

BE THE FIRST TO GREET

This arrow is the one that lets you to be in the inner most depths of the others hearts. This arrow needs a skilful shooter. The needed skills are the hearty smile, the warm shaking of hands and the friendly welcoming to the other. Being successfully achieved, such kinds of skills are going to be rewarded, referring to the Hadith: "In greetings, the better is one who initiates greeting the other". You will not enter Jannah until you have Imaan (firm faith) and you will not attain (complete) Imaan until you love one another. Shall I not show you something by doing which there will be love between you? Make salaam common amongst yourselves. (Sahih Muslim)

EXCHANGE PRESENTS

It has a strange charming affection that captivates all senses. Hence, exchanging presents and gifts in different occasions is a pleasant habit however gifts should be within one's tolerable expenses. Prophet (Peace be up on him) told us that giving presents increases love among Muslims.
He said also: "Shaking hands removes hatred and exchanging presents enhances love and ends enmity."

SPEAK WHAT IS NECESSARY

Loud voice and chattering are bad merits. You have to be sweet-worded, tender in expressing yourself. Concerning this merit, The Prophet (Peace be up on him) said "The good word is a charity (is a Sadaqa)." If the good word has its own magic in winning the hearts of your enemies how powerfully it would work then with your brothers' hearts!! Whoever guarantees me the protection of the part between his two jaws (i.e. tongue) and that which is between his thighs (i.e. private parts), I guarantee for him Jannah. (Bukhaari and Muslim) Prophet's (Peace be up on him) said: "Nobility of manners and taciturnity are the best of manners that people are ever characterized by."

BE A GOOD LISTENER

It is to listen patiently and never interrupt the speaker, as the Prophet (Peace be up on him) never interrupted a speaker till he ended his speech. And he who fights for this merit gains others love and admiration, whilst on the contrary is the one who chatters and interrupts the other.

APPEARANCE AND DRESSING WELL

You have to be careful with your appearance so as to be neat, well-dressed. The Prophet (Peace be up on him) says that Allah (SWT) loves beauty to be in everything.

BE KIND AND HELPFUL

Good treatment you classifies you as an obedient, beloved slave of Allah (SWT) as the Prophet Muhammad (Peace be up on him) says: "The more you are in (real) favour of others, the more you are beloved by Allah (SWT) " as Allah (SWT) says in the Quran: " And spend of your substance in the cause of Allah (SWT) and make not your own hands contribute to (your) destruction; but do good; for Allah (SWT) love those, who do good" (2:195) Every good deed is sadaqah (an act of charity). (Bukhaari and Muslim)Whoever provides ease for someone who is burdened with debt, Allah will provide ease for him in this world and the Aakhirah. (Sahih Muslim)

BE GENEROUS

Offering money is the key for most of the closed doors that hinder you from reaching others hearts, especially in these days. Some people behave stingily as if they see the ghost of poverty waiting to attack them once they think about being generous in offering money i.e. not the behaviour of the Muslim. Sadaqah (the giving of charity) wipes out sin just as water extinguishes fire. (Tirmizi)

EXCUSE SHORTCOMINGS

Keeping an eye on others behaviour is a bad merit that blocks your way to their hearts. On the contrary is to have a good opinion of them. So, try hard to give your brothers the excuse as much as you can. Allah (SWT) told us that if someone hurt others then he or she would have to ask for forgiveness from the person as well as from Allah (SWT) in order to compensate the mistake. The Muslim who conceals the faults of another Muslim, Allah will conceal his faults on the Day of Qiyaamah. (Sahih Muslim)

BE HONEST AND EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS

If you loved someone or felt good feelings about them, don't wait, just tell them at once. Regarding this, the Prophet (Peace be up on him) said: "If you felt the brotherly love of Islam towards any, you should immediately go and tell him about your feelings." He added "It is the way relations are to be strongly indicated". Such love is to be blessed by Allah (SWT) , if it is purely for Allah (SWT)'s sake, not for any other personal affairs such as seeking high position, money, fame etc. Unless this love is for Allah's (Saw) sake, it is a fruitless kind of brotherhood then.

Moreover, Allah (SWT) says: "Friends on that Day will be enemies one to another, except Al Muttaqoon (i.e. those who have strong faith and deeds)." (43:67) I enjoin upon you truthfulness for indeed truthfulness guides towards virtue, and virtue certainly leads to Jannah. (Bukhaari and Muslim)

BE SOCIABLE

It is the art of being social. Here, a kind of misconception could exist between sociability and hypocrisy. Could you differentiate between the two meanings? The difference between hypocrisy and sociability is that sociability is a desirable legal behaviour in order to improve either life on earth or religion or so as to improve both by sacrificing the worldly affairs, while hypocrisy aims at sacrificing religion for the sake of the worldly affairs.
The Prophet (Peace be up on him) said: "Being sociable is as alms-giving."

The Muslim who visits his sick Muslim brother in the morning, seventy thousand angels pray for his forgiveness until the evening, and if he visits him in the evening, then seventy thousand angels pray for his forgiveness until the morning. And he will be granted a mansion (for it) in Jannah.(Tirmizi)

Rasulullah [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] was asked about the deeds which lead most of the people into Jannah. He replied, 'The fear of Allah and good manners.' (Tirmizi)

Family ties are suspended from the Arsh (Throne of Allah). It proclaims: Whoever upholds me, may Allah (SWT) keep good relations with him and whoever severs me, may Allah sever His relation (of mercy) from him.(Bukhaari and Muslim) 

Appreciate from Valued

Appreciate mom and dad who have given birth, raise, educate, provide clothing, food, drink, shelter, school, spending money, games, and more. Appreciate siblings who were together in requests to play, along, angah, uda , gift, ateh, tam, acik, Anjang, Busu, a friend watching tv, a friend out walking. Valuing relatives are like replacing family wherever we are. Valuing teachers who have taught, the anger in class, a smile always when teaching, which give a gift when successful, marking the school books, and so forth that teachers do. Valuing school friends good or bad, that sit right next to the left rear, which runs along Similarly, a lunch in the canteen together, the teasing, the learned, and more red. ... During adolescence,Appreciate the friends who started along their way, making something new, a call to the mosque, a surprise when sleeping in class, who advise and rebuke, and everything they do. Appreciate the people around me a lot of help in daily life, smiles at a charity, which manages the affairs of the material and others. ... During adulthood, Valuing own family, husband, wife, children, a healing joy and sorrow, which enrich the life, being pushed together to build a happy family, and everything.Valuing existing neighbors during difficult or easy, although not all nice and friendly, the visit when sick and others. ... From time to time up to the end of life,Appreciate the love that God has showered, Appreciate the love that was the Prophet Muhammad pour, Conclusion, Do we have and always appreciate of curiosity rewarded? Why did I question the word "appreciate" this? Companion reader, appreciate the value of more noble than appreciated. Appreciated, of course, of their own goodness or character who admired person. People will appreciate us who have been kind to him. People will appreciate that we have helped. People will appreciate that we have been rebuked. And many more examples when we appreciated. Yet the extent of our gratitude when we appreciated? Unlike when we try to appreciate something. Good people we hold dear. Naughty people we hold dear. Naughty does not mean we should feel proud of his attitude, but we criticize and advise the lenient attitude and polite. Sometimes we are not aware of those who are blessed of God to be close to us, but we shy away from it or insulted when we discover weaknesses and shortcomings. Perhaps this is part of God's test for us in appreciating each Giving. And the most remarkable and invaluable when we appreciate the Almighty God. Appreciate identifying it closer, love Him every moment of breath, remembering when thick and thin, without a place and time to find it, and mengabdikanNya close and strong in spirit. And people appreciate named the Prophet Muhammad as ethical Quran word of God. Which always precede his people even at the last minute blow breath into the world. Friends of the reader, still jelaskah you to appreciate the meaning of this? Let us be self-reflection properties we are lacking, and changed to a more appreciative. And Allah knows best

Fasting virtues Arafat Day

Arafat day is a day that has its own advantages. If the pilgrims are required to be in 'Arafah before staying there, we who are unable to perform the pilgrimage organized to fast on this day. Coming once a year, do not go unrewarded. We also organized for chanting and praying to God on this day. Here quoted several hadith to ponder. 

From Abu Qatadah al-Ansari that the Prophet was asked about fasting the day of Arafah? So the Prophet replied that it means: Dikaffarah (forgiveness of sin) a year ago and the year ahead. (Hadith isnad sohih issued by Muslim clerics, Tarmizi, Ibn Khuzaimah and Baihaqi) From Sayyidatina 'A'isha said: No of days in a year I fast more I love than the day of Arafah. (Hadith isnad sohih released by Ibn Abu Syaibah and Baihaqi) From Anas bin Malik has said: It is said in those days ten per day (equal to) a thousand days, the day of Arafah (approximate) ten thousand. It has been said that Imam Baihaqi .... It will be on edge. (Hadith hasan isnad issued by the priest mentioned by Imam Baihaqi and Sayuti) Hopefully, our practice has improved from last year and our sins forgiven by God.Use every available opportunity by adding more stock Hereafter we meet God in the day before with no help other than those who meet Him in a heart that is clean and safe from dirt and stain of sin. 

Law Qurban and wiser

Qurban is a very well-liked among the practices of the Prophet S.A.W where he always encouraged his Companions to do Qurban. This is because it has a lot of Qurban wisdom and the advantages that would benefit ourselves, relegion anf society. Therefore, as Muslims who can afford to take heed of Prophet S.A.W encouragement to his Companions to do so.

There are many hadiths organizing Qurban in which the Prophet said;

"There are no practices of human sacrifice at the feast in that preferred God from following blood (ie slaughtering the sacrifice). Indeed, it will come on the Day of judgement with its horns, claws and feathers (and put on weight). And surely the blood of sacrifice to get a position in the sight of Allah on a high place before it falls on the earth. [1] Thus, when your heart sincere self-sacrifice". (Narrated by Imam at-Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah and al-Hakim from Hadrat 'A'ishah. According to Imam Suyuti: this is a Hasan Hadeeth. See: al-Jami' as-Saghier, hadith no. 7949.)

Qurban Law 

Muakkad sacrificial law was circumcision (ie of very-very encouraged by the way) for people who meet the following conditions : [2] 

1. Muslim

2. Mature and sane

3. Independent / independent

4. There's capabilities, ie a net surplus money maintaining himself and those under obligations include food, clothing and shelter during the day and feast days tasyriq.

Worship is open to all Muslims who have space or the ability of either the full moon or the village/rural, people on a journey, or are in the state and includes the pilgrims in Mina. [3] There is a history in Soheh Imam Bukhari and Muslim relate that Prophet do sacrifice in Mina for his wife to slaughter cattle. (Narrated from Aisha) [4]

Dimakruhkan leave this sacrifice of worship for those who meet the conditions above. Imam Syafi'ie said: "I do not give rukhsah to leave it for anyone who could do it" (ie Imam Syafi'ie makrooh look for people who can afford to leave). [5]

While among the wisdom of sacrificial worship pensyariatan is:
First: To keep our memory of the story of Abraham, peace be upon him who is willing to slaughter his son Ismail peace be upon him as a sacrifice, but God replaced it with a kibasy. In a hadith narrated by Imam Ibn Majah from Zaid bin Arqam, he said: The companions of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, 'O Messenger of Allah, what is the sacrifice? Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said with his saying meaning:
"It is the sunnah of your father Abraham. They asked: What will we get from it, Messenger of Allah? He said: For every lock there is welfare. They asked: What about the feathers, Messenger of Allah? He said: For every strand of wool there is charity ".
Second: To train and form the Muslims so willing to sacrifice part of God's providence and grace grace for the sake of others.
Three: Cultivating pemeduliaan attitude and concern for the community to distribute part of the meat as food or sustenance expand poor people during Eid al-Adha.
Fourth: Sowing and admirable qualities and instill good values ​​into yourself with patience emulate the Prophet Ibrahim and Ismail peace be upon them and nature that emphasizes both obedience and love to God Almighty.
Footnotes: 

[1] The meaning according to Imam al-Minawi; "animal sacrifice are at the high acceptance of it is accepted by God from the beginning intended to be sacrificed before it was witnessed by those who were present when he was killed." (See; Faidhul-Qadier, hadith no. 7,949)

When love walked in

Synopsis:: Young, talented, and handsome Qing Yu Jiang (Calvin Chen) receives orders to look for Chairman Yuan's long lost granddaughter, Shen Ya Yin (Victoria/Song Qian). Because her grandfather tried every means to track her down to search for her and to separate her from her father, she and her father often moved houses and hid away from her grandfather, eventually, her father fell ill and died. Since then, Ya Yin dislikes her grandfather because he has ruined her childhood happiness. Ya Yin's guardian plotted a plan for her own daughter (Ya Yin's cousin) to impose as Ya Yin to dupe Chairman Yuan into thinking that she is actually his long lost grand daughter. Yu Jiang gradually enters Ya Yin's heart but refuses to admit his love for her because she's Chairman Yuan's granddaughter. Ya Yin's evil cousin became an obstacle between Ya Yin and Yu Jiang.

Sweet ! 

cute like me ! =P

ok  tataaaa :)

For me, the drama tells the story of how Qin Yu Jiang (played by Calvin Chen) was under orders to look for the chairman's long-lost granddaughter, which he found to be Shen Ya Yin (played by Victoria Song) who is treated like Cinderella in her aunt's home. And what happens next is a romantic love story that makes people laugh and cry. 

its so awesome, like one of a kind story, its fun and sad sometimes so i really recommend this especially that the actors are cute !! ugh i hate to use more than 300 letter lol so i will tell you more about it, also dont worry its not too sad its perfect victoria , zhou mi are the best you can see how they act so perfectly !!, vic is so cute, also this drama makes you think with them which makes it much better like why is she doing this?

let's singing "Dihatiku"

didn't remember yet "Dihatiku" song..

but, I'm hard to try to remember this song as soon well.

Sooner or later i'll remember it k, believe me ! :D

Ok. Stop bubling..enjoy this song yeaah

**psssttt::Uitm is the best ! & always in my heart ❤

here is my College

Ollaa.. blogger..have a good smile & hapiness

for the first time in uitm..want share 'here ins my college'

the picture was taken by me actually ! :p

A stand for Angsana then, 1 is block

my College is A1

zOom in contruction

A1 & A2

Add caption

under contruction **

Life is Like Hot Chocolate

Hot Chocolate ! Ooh my favourite ♥ ♥ ♥

I just read this on another forum, and wanted to share de message! 

♥

my hot choco ! :P

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A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit, 

the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work & lives.

Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and return with a large 

pot of hot chocolate & an assortment of cups - porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.

When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said::

" Notice that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain & cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you're drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In most cases it is just more expensive & in some cases even hides that we drink.

What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but you consciously went for the best cups.. & then you began eyeing each other's cups."

They are just tools to hold & contain life. The cup you have does not define, not change the qualityof life you have. Sometimes, by  concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate that has been provided us. The hot chocolate is there for the taking, man chooses the cups.

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This story helped me find whats most important in life. Its such amazing story about the realities in life. I think many people are flooded with so many things in their lives,

they are actually not living but its those things that are living in them. 

For me, great story..i know how lucky & blessed I am. The 'Stressors' really take control of my life & cause me to neglect my health & eating habits. I'm really trying ti rebalance my priorities remembering ME..my health, my study & my blog also..haha

So, Live simply. Love generously. care deeply. Speak kindly & enjoy your hot chocolate in Uitm.. !

Wisdom from The Most Beloved Animated Musicals

“If you can dream it, you can do it.” - Walt Disney

Disney films are not only an important part of cinematic history, but they’ve inspired generations of children and adults to believe that their wishes will come true. Along with the stories, the songs in these films are timeless classics that also encourage us all to never stop dreaming.

Here a songs from popular Disney movies tat will stir my heart & lift my spirits =)

What little girl didn’t fall in love with this song when they first heard it? This sweet lullaby 

first appeared in Snow White and the Seven Dwarves (1937). Here the princess daydreams of her Prince Charming while telling a bedtime story to her new friends. To every single woman still waiting, this song is a silent hope in their hearts.

The Lion King gave us all a reason to sit back and relax when it released in 1994. As Simba finds himself far away from home, his newfound friends Timon and Pumbaa help him get acclimated to the worry-free way of living. The message is simple: “It means no worries for the rest of your days.”

This song is a hidden gem in the 1950 version of Cinderella. Here, an orphaned young woman who is mistreated by her stepmother and stepsisters still holds on to hope. “No matter how your heart is grieving / If you keep on believing or The dream that you wish will come true.”

Oohh..so enjoy it.. fell like on Disney world! yuhuuuu 

Lot Of  Love ♥ ♥ ♥ 

Inspiration song for this week !

Such a beautiful and inspirational song, Enjoy this special version by Nat King Cole, and look forward to new inspiring songs each week!  Happy holidays blogger!

O Holy Night! The stars are brightly shining,
It is the night of the dear Saviour’s birth.
Long lay the world in sin and error pining.
Till He appeared and the Spirit felt its worth.
A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices,
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.
Fall on your knees! Oh, hear the angel voices!
O night divine, the night when Christ was born;
O night, O Holy Night , O night divine!
O night, O Holy Night , O night divine!

Led by the light of faith serenely beaming,
With glowing hearts by His cradle we stand.
O’er the world a star is sweetly gleaming,
Now come the wisemen from out of the Orient land.
The King of kings lay thus lowly manger;
In all our trials born to be our friends.
He knows our need, our weakness is no stranger,
Behold your King! Before him lowly bend!
Behold your King! Before him lowly bend!

Truly He taught us to love one another,
His law is love and His gospel is peace.
Chains he shall break, for the slave is our brother.
And in his name all oppression shall cease.
Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,
With all our hearts we praise His holy name.
Christ is the Lord! Then ever, ever praise we,
His power and glory ever more proclaim!
His power and glory ever more proclaim!

Doa for Parents ♥

early morning..miss my little brother..

make a called, then speak to him.. a lot of story that he tried

to tell me.. very interesting with he piece of information..

'kakak, jangan lupe doa kat mak & ayah hari-hari tau..tau..tau..'

"Rabbighfir lii wa liwaalidayya wa lilmu"miniina yauma yaquumul'hisaab, Rabbirhamhumaa kamaa rabbayaanii shaghiiraa."
O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they have nourished me when I was young.

Ok.  By de Way thanks a lot to my little brother, 

at least i got something to post something on my blog today!

The moral of de story, what ever we do

don't try to forget Parents..!

Parents is everything after Allah & Rasullullah..

attached the Doa..as a mention. =)

GTE Programme by FBM

Juz wanna to share. .a ministry of moment during Gateway To Excellence programme ♥

First day even~ 

with housemate 

peace yOo **v

GTE: day twO

me !! :p

the bester of SMILE! :P

Azrin n her clasmate *group member 

at the end of programme..i got the tired ! but have enjoy and also 'haffenim' at the end..May Allah Bless =)

Student Card !

haii blogger..
nOw, i have done my student card. It is look like kindergarten student.. urrghhh..
*don't laugh ok.. must be wear for 3 years! haiihh..
don't want b a typer today..juz make it a simple entry..~lalalalalala

this mine ~ 

bag, scarf, pen & student card.. complete n action!